Meet the Team

Melanie Studley

Creator, Host and Producer of the AOM Podcast

Melanie is the Lady Boss, she is a stay at home mother of three and is married to Seth Studley…a therapist that you may have heard of before. She loves indoor climbing, education, and secretly wants to become a voice over actress.
Seth Studley

Co-Creator of AOM podcast and Licensed Therapist

Seth is married to the The Boss Lady and they have 3 kids and do a podcast and have another company together. They do a lot of fun things. Seth likes to do anything and most likely will if it can be a good story to tell later. Maybe this is a flaw, not sure.

Website Consultant

Hey! I’m Elizabeth Williams. A little about me, I’m currently a stay at home mom, homeschooling my two school aged kids while
entertaining two preschoolers. I keep my sanity and identity beyond “MOM” by working a few side projects including giving piano lessons, selling children’s books, and blogging. I’m also in school to become a piano technician learning to tune and fix pianos. AND I’m on the team to help Seth and Melanie update and curate the Anatomy Of Marriage website! I’m so excited to
be part of the the team and look forward to interacting with you on the Anatomy of Marriage Facebook groups.

Kenon Koffkey

Web Dev and Advertising

I like word play, sarcasm, puns, nerd culture, podcasts, internet memes, drinking pop (not soda),  rooting for University of Michigan, as well as coaching and playing soccer. However, as much as I am fond of those things, I also have lovely wife, Christina. We got married in April 2009 and it has been quite the journey, but I would not spend it with anyone else.  We also have a son, James, who we refer to as LJ (a.k.a Little James) who was born in February of 2012. He’s a great mixture of personalities from both his mom and I (poor kid) and we love him to the edge of the known expanding universe and back.


Senior Executive Maven Of All Things Crafty

Hey y’all! I’m Rayah. I’m basically the kinda person that does all the things. Not because I’m so awesome, but because there is just so much cool stuff in life to do! I like knitting and crocheting and music and graphic design and social media strategy and playing with my kids and cooking and baking and sewing and swearing and dancing without skill.
I am 31, mom of 2 boys in my arms and one little girl in my heart. I deal with mild to moderate depression and anxiety and my husband is my hero. He has Schizoaffective (schizophrenia + Bipolar 2), PTSD, and is a trauma survivor. This past year we’ve had 4 psychiatric hospitalizations and 1 of our shorties had a medical inpatient stay too because, hey, why not – our deductible was already met! Our life is totally cray but it’s also beautiful. You can read and hear things about us if you want.
Justin Hartford

Community Building and Communications

Generally fascinated with the future and how technology brings us all together. Similarly, I live on a farm with my wife and young child.


Research and Development Coordinator/Mediocre comedian

Tierney (T)- smart, snappy and DGAF.

Lauren M.

Writer of Things

Hey Hey!

I am Lauren Miller lover of marriage, writing and learning new things. I stumbled across the Studley’s roughly a year ago while I was looking for authentic, relatable marriage advice. Tired of the echo I had come across finding a new voice was wonderful.

I am a stay at home mama to 4 little dudes ranging in age from (nearly) 7 to 1. My husband is a dealership photographer by day and Airstream renovator by night. We are working on building out our 31’ Airstream Sovereign to be our future home on wheels. We are looking forward to a life of adventure discovering new places in the world around us.

I look forward to writing pieces on relationships and life here on You can always catch me over at my personal site, YouTube, or Instagram using the links below.


Social Media Coordinator

I am a born and raised Minnesotan who recently relocated to Phoenix, Arizona. I am currently engaged and will be married in just a few short months! While I’m your average midwestern, Swedish-American lady, my fiancé is 100% Navajo. We both grew up in the States, but our Family of Origin and cultural backgrounds look VERY different. It’s fun and challenging. I wouldn’t trade him for the world.
A few things about me: I would be a lost cause without my morning cup of joe. Some would consider me a coffee snob, but hey! I’ve met worse… In my free time, I enjoy cooking, checking out the local food scene, and looking at puppies on Instagram.