How to become who you really want to become in marriage with Preferred-Self, Ideal-Self and Actual-Self

Today Seth and I come to you live from a dock in Folly Beach, South Carolina, you can watch the video on our YouTube channel!

Today we talk all about how to identify your Preferred-Self, Ideal-Self and Actual-Self in your relationships, and how this knowledge can help you grow closer to your relationship goals!

We also share some interventions with y’all, like how to share constructive criticism with your partner ‘sandwich style’, and so much more!

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